Hello! Happy Thursday & Happy New Year's Eve! So much to share on just one episode if one is looking back on the best year ever! As it was for your host and friend little ole' Tom. Tom shares two lists; one about the things he does not do anymore that have aided in his Pro You Journey. The second is a list of his highlights of the past year. Highlights on 2020..? YUP! And Tom ain't shy about it because he's been walking, talking and sharing his message of gratitude ever since he began PYP. Come to Tom's well buy the water Tom sells!
Thank you, thank you and thank you for being you, listening and following my Pro You journey! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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Hello and happy Thursday (& Christmas Eve!) On today's episode (second to last of the year) Tom talks about being Pro You - wow... what a great concept! LOL But Tom breaks it down in ten steps. That should only take anyone a lifetime or so. LOL again! Tom also shares a topic of much joy and pride, "How well his clients and people he mentors are doing and why are they doing so well in lieu of all that is not normal?" Tom is most thankful for the PYP listeners and the opportunity to have an audience for his words, journey and message. thank you, thank you and thank you. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! When Tom considered himself a seven or eight out of ten, he embraced he was still tested. Tom recently proclaimed himself an eight point seven out of ten. Yes, self-appointed, but to Tom it makes perfect sense. Like achieving different belts along the way to receiving a black belt in martial arts. Well, Tom is excited to share that even an eight point seven can and will be tested. Looking up the word 'resolve' was part of Tom's next morning where he drew this one conclusion (referring to a quote that says 'it's not about finding answers, it's about losing the questions') Tom may not know exactly which version of himself he will be tomorrow but he knows he will do his best today. Lastly Tom shares one of his favorite Pro You success stories about a guy named "Joe". Enjoy and as always thank you for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! As 2020 comes to a close, Tom is highly 'aware' of the intense feelings this time of year can cause, without a worldwide pandemic. The Pro You path is one of self discovery and that is not always fun nor comfortable. But, none the less, it is growth and it is the most important work you will ever do in this lifetime. So deem yourself worthy, become/stay aware and each and everyday be thankful for what you have and the ability/opportunity to become the best version of you! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Knowing this is a very challenging time of year for many, Tom knows the current situation is not making anything easier on anyone. So Tom doing what Tom does, he shares how he is managing his Pro You Path. As always, it begins and ends with gratitude. What Tom is sharing on today's episode are the fruits of his labor... 'the other side' of what he did, his actions, the decisions he deemed himself worthy of and the responses he chose. If anyone needs to chat, someone to listen to or a need to share anything - please feel free to contact Tom: he is here! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday/Thanksgiving! Tom's message today is simple; it's the one he based his PYP on: gratitude and thankfulness. Tom's journey led him to a place where he didn't need certain 'things' that he may have wanted/needed in the past. Stopping, reflecting, asking 'why?' and living in the present moment have filled any void from human constructs in his past. Sharing what he is thankful for is incredibly easy so Tom works hard at never losing focus of that which is most important, that which he can and cannot control and that which does serve him. There is so much Tom is thankful for that he doesn't have time to complain, think about yesterday or tomorrow.
Enjoy and as always, especially today, "Thank you, thank you and thank you" for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom finishes up Part II with one of his most common phrases: "How one deals with a test directly determines the outcome of the test'. This being the reason for a two-part episode and proving once again the valuable lesson it illustrates. Tom gets his notes and he has a lot of them! November has become an important month for Tom and he shares the reasons why. Lastly, Tom shares clients' notes which are always his favorite! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! What an episode Tom has for you, the wonderful listener, today! While Tom began a story dealing with a common theme of his, "How one deals with a test directly determines the outcome of the test" his Zoom recorder stopped recording. The good news is that Tom noticed it after only a minute or so after it stopped recording and the 41 minutes recorded were saved! On the other side, it took Tom the rest of the day to finish recording the episode, hence the Part I. Which in itself became a test and how Tom dealt with it would determine the outcome - once again! In the end it all worked out #shocker because Tom is solely focused on responding and that is exactly what he is SHARING on today's episode! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! The title is the first line of a T-shirt that Tom has. You have to listen to the podcast to find out what the second line is. It was just another Tuesday; just pay some bills and wash his car is what Tom had written down. What transpired? Nothing short of a huge test for Tom. One where there wasn't a true good feeling about what transpired but acceptance was the true key and the Pro You path Tom chose in the end. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom likes Tom! Wait, what?!?! It's true. It's not that Tom didn't like himself before, it's just that he had so much noise between his ears he couldn't. The White Noise, as he calls it, didn't allow him to be present, thus he never truly thought if he did or didn't like himself nor the importance of 'being your own biggest fan' which Tom is a huge fan of now! Literally! Getting out of one's own way, allowing the good to arise, everything one needs lies within - none of these Tom made up (shocker right?!?!) but they all resonate with him, he understands them and 'come to his well' that is the water Tom sells. Lastly... Tom is still not perfect - shocker #2! Which makes the point of this episode even more poignant; Tom likes Tom in lieu of his flaws.
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode of PYP Tom shares a theme that has been on his mind on and off for quite awhile - being alone. What does that take, being alone? Why would someone want to be alone or okay being alone? Exactly the point, no one would really want to. But where Tom is along his Pro You path, responding is the key and choosing one's response is an "8.0 out of 10" on a Pro You chart! Tom did not predict or design his path but it is one he is very proud of today and why he enjoys sharing his Pro You path. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom continues to delve into the Pro You experience and he is better than ever and stoked to share what he's learning and experiencing. Tom asked his clients and mentoree's to answer two questions. Tom shares the answers and is quite stoked with the awesome replies and so very proud of his tribe! Staying focused on the 'doing nothing' theme Tom continues to investigate what that truly means and how he can apply it within the context of his walk, journey and path. Tom is in a great place and he is hoping you are too! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom has always been a strong believer in the quote "If you like what you're getting, keep doing what you're doing." And Tom is! With hindsight and clarity Tom can see how he got to where he is at the age of fifty-five in October of 2020, and that's what Tom is selling on today's episode! Cutting out the bad simply means more space for the good; the good that lies within all of us that is waiting for us to get out of the way so 'it' can come forth. No matter what it is in life, Tom believes deeming oneself worthy is a road you'll never get off of nor get lost on. It is a very good time to be Tom and it is also a very good time to be a client or mentoree of Tom's; hear the success stories! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom revisits a topic that he has previously shared on PYP as well as a Sunday Morning Message he sent out in '06. Stopping, pausing and reflecting Tom has done but what about doing nothing? Well, once again easier stated and much harder to apply/accomplish. Understanding the importance of downtime, Tom really focused on what doing nothing is, what it involves and how one can achieve it. Of course Tom went to Google for some answers and he shares what he found. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode of PYP, Tom shares the two powerful words he has been using with his own Pro You path and his clients: move forward. Tom has mentioned efficient living and to simply move forward freely and easily is the truest sense of efficiency. There is no benefit to dwelling, questioning why or placing your time and energy into things you cannot control. The other path is the Pro You path which is based on the belief that no matter what you go through you will come out better, stronger and faster than you were prior to the 'learning' moment. Tom has a few quotes to back his theory up as well! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! A while back Tom shared how he has truly become a minimalist; got rid of his storage unit, then got rid of anything in his home he hadn't used in a year. Consistently pursuing a life of minimalism, and the principle that less is more, Tom continued with that theme with his clothing this time. Efficient living is the goal and Tom feels the blessings/fruit of that labor. Tom shares his notes from walking the earth this past week and what's happening in California with all the fires. Lastly, a popular section of his "Mosier Notes" where Tom is always learning! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom wants you to know first and foremost how much he is cheering you, the listeners, on and wanting you to know that you are the reason he does what he does - so thank you for being YOU! One of Tom's favorite quotes he has used with a few clients as of late is: "The mountain you are carrying you were only supposed to climb". So very true! Mental weight has tangible weight and can add up to a debilitating level if allowed. Stay mindful, stay aware, stay thankful are as always Pro You weapons of choice. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! A very sad but true statement, "You don't know what you have until it's gone". But it fit today's episode of Tom's PYP. That being said, Tom has experienced the good that can follow if that thing that was taken is returned - and the lasting impact if it is not. One thing Tom has always shared is that "After each individual battle we build armor. What's the armor for? The next inevitable battle." If we grow through what we go through (choose our response) at the end of each battle we will be a better, stronger, version of ourselves. Remember that moving forward is Tom's message. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode Tom continues his search for a better version of himself by examining the word Ego. Tom is understanding, or trying to understand, terms and words that he never used or that never resonated with him before. Ego is one of those words; what is it? Why do we have one? Examining and pausing are the two speeds along a Pro You path. Once you've deemed yourself worthy, the fruits of that labor become extremely apparent. Come to Tom's well, buy the water he sells and that's what he's selling on today's episode of his Pro You podcast. Enjoy - and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Magic. That is what it feels like is happening in Tom's world. Little moments, but moments, that are unforgettable splashed along Tom's Pro You path like fairy dust has been sprinkled. His clients, the ones he mentors, his tribe, are all thriving. Magic. Tom and Zen sitting with coyotes... MAGIC! Day to day, moment to moment, magical moments have appeared so as Tom always says "keep doing what you're doing and keep getting what you're getting". This is exactly what Tom is doing and how he is living. His fountain, flowing the best it ever has, and Tom is grateful for that which is flowing out. That... is what Tom is selling if you're coming to his well to buy the water that he sells! Enjoy - and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Right off, Tom admits 'staying in the moment' and a past title - 'being present' - are fairly similar. But often Tom will hear someone say something a little different and it will resonate deeply with Tom. People search for 'tools' that resonate with their own personal journey. Staying in the moment was exactly how this episode came to be. So it was an easy decision to choose the title. These are all the steps one finds along their Pro You path of self discovery. Quieting the noise, removing the questions, that's what staying in the moment does. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode Tom continues his journey - his spiritual journey to be exact. Tom chose to pursue a spiritual path when he turned 55 (three years ago) and he has been on it, consistently improving, ever since. His vision, perspective, insight, everything has shifted. Even his vocabulary. just check out his PYP Episode titles - words he never used before the age of fifty. So 'Vibrating Higher' is the easiest way to explain what Tom is trying to share about his experience walking this here earth. He is the best he has ever been and that is the water from his well which he sells (for free) here every Thursday! Thank you for being YOU!
Enjoy and as always thank you for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom stole a few titles from his friend Scott; like today's. For a Caterpillar, the cocoon cannot be a fun time, not comfortable, not easy nor familiar. But the joy of the butterfly outweighs all of that - No Mud. No Lotus. The ProYou path is one of self discovery and it is not always good news. But once on the path of evolving, be thankful you are on it. Many others will never begin the journey you are on. You have deemed yourself worthy - Congrats and welcome! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode of PYP Tom is keeping it real. So real he added the hashtag 'sorry not sorry' as a part two of today's episode title. Taking out feelings; distancing oneself, allowing for separation, is the best way to gain clarity, perspective and the ability to be thankful in all circumstances. If Tom believes fully in what he is sharing, should he be sorry? Well, he's not sorry. Tom wants you to be the best YOU today, not tomorrow or next week, month or year. TODAY! So sorry, not sorry if the water seems a little cold from Tom's well today #winkwink
Just remember it's free! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom gets to share his incredible/magical weekend in Lake Tahoe. Once again being present is vital or truly maximizing moments that fall upon one's Pro You path. That is exactly what Tom experienced; from the drive to each moment, each conversation and even on the way home Zen and Tom stopped to watch the sunrise over a lake. Magical. Thankful.
Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*