Hello and happy Thursday! Tom likes Tom! Wait, what?!?! It's true. It's not that Tom didn't like himself before, it's just that he had so much noise between his ears he couldn't. The White Noise, as he calls it, didn't allow him to be present, thus he never truly thought if he did or didn't like himself nor the importance of 'being your own biggest fan' which Tom is a huge fan of now! Literally! Getting out of one's own way, allowing the good to arise, everything one needs lies within - none of these Tom made up (shocker right?!?!) but they all resonate with him, he understands them and 'come to his well' that is the water Tom sells. Lastly... Tom is still not perfect - shocker #2! Which makes the point of this episode even more poignant; Tom likes Tom in lieu of his flaws.
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode of PYP Tom shares a theme that has been on his mind on and off for quite awhile - being alone. What does that take, being alone? Why would someone want to be alone or okay being alone? Exactly the point, no one would really want to. But where Tom is along his Pro You path, responding is the key and choosing one's response is an "8.0 out of 10" on a Pro You chart! Tom did not predict or design his path but it is one he is very proud of today and why he enjoys sharing his Pro You path. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom continues to delve into the Pro You experience and he is better than ever and stoked to share what he's learning and experiencing. Tom asked his clients and mentoree's to answer two questions. Tom shares the answers and is quite stoked with the awesome replies and so very proud of his tribe! Staying focused on the 'doing nothing' theme Tom continues to investigate what that truly means and how he can apply it within the context of his walk, journey and path. Tom is in a great place and he is hoping you are too! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom has always been a strong believer in the quote "If you like what you're getting, keep doing what you're doing." And Tom is! With hindsight and clarity Tom can see how he got to where he is at the age of fifty-five in October of 2020, and that's what Tom is selling on today's episode! Cutting out the bad simply means more space for the good; the good that lies within all of us that is waiting for us to get out of the way so 'it' can come forth. No matter what it is in life, Tom believes deeming oneself worthy is a road you'll never get off of nor get lost on. It is a very good time to be Tom and it is also a very good time to be a client or mentoree of Tom's; hear the success stories! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom revisits a topic that he has previously shared on PYP as well as a Sunday Morning Message he sent out in '06. Stopping, pausing and reflecting Tom has done but what about doing nothing? Well, once again easier stated and much harder to apply/accomplish. Understanding the importance of downtime, Tom really focused on what doing nothing is, what it involves and how one can achieve it. Of course Tom went to Google for some answers and he shares what he found. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode of PYP, Tom shares the two powerful words he has been using with his own Pro You path and his clients: move forward. Tom has mentioned efficient living and to simply move forward freely and easily is the truest sense of efficiency. There is no benefit to dwelling, questioning why or placing your time and energy into things you cannot control. The other path is the Pro You path which is based on the belief that no matter what you go through you will come out better, stronger and faster than you were prior to the 'learning' moment. Tom has a few quotes to back his theory up as well! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! A while back Tom shared how he has truly become a minimalist; got rid of his storage unit, then got rid of anything in his home he hadn't used in a year. Consistently pursuing a life of minimalism, and the principle that less is more, Tom continued with that theme with his clothing this time. Efficient living is the goal and Tom feels the blessings/fruit of that labor. Tom shares his notes from walking the earth this past week and what's happening in California with all the fires. Lastly, a popular section of his "Mosier Notes" where Tom is always learning! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom wants you to know first and foremost how much he is cheering you, the listeners, on and wanting you to know that you are the reason he does what he does - so thank you for being YOU! One of Tom's favorite quotes he has used with a few clients as of late is: "The mountain you are carrying you were only supposed to climb". So very true! Mental weight has tangible weight and can add up to a debilitating level if allowed. Stay mindful, stay aware, stay thankful are as always Pro You weapons of choice. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! A very sad but true statement, "You don't know what you have until it's gone". But it fit today's episode of Tom's PYP. That being said, Tom has experienced the good that can follow if that thing that was taken is returned - and the lasting impact if it is not. One thing Tom has always shared is that "After each individual battle we build armor. What's the armor for? The next inevitable battle." If we grow through what we go through (choose our response) at the end of each battle we will be a better, stronger, version of ourselves. Remember that moving forward is Tom's message. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode Tom continues his search for a better version of himself by examining the word Ego. Tom is understanding, or trying to understand, terms and words that he never used or that never resonated with him before. Ego is one of those words; what is it? Why do we have one? Examining and pausing are the two speeds along a Pro You path. Once you've deemed yourself worthy, the fruits of that labor become extremely apparent. Come to Tom's well, buy the water he sells and that's what he's selling on today's episode of his Pro You podcast. Enjoy - and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Magic. That is what it feels like is happening in Tom's world. Little moments, but moments, that are unforgettable splashed along Tom's Pro You path like fairy dust has been sprinkled. His clients, the ones he mentors, his tribe, are all thriving. Magic. Tom and Zen sitting with coyotes... MAGIC! Day to day, moment to moment, magical moments have appeared so as Tom always says "keep doing what you're doing and keep getting what you're getting". This is exactly what Tom is doing and how he is living. His fountain, flowing the best it ever has, and Tom is grateful for that which is flowing out. That... is what Tom is selling if you're coming to his well to buy the water that he sells! Enjoy - and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Right off, Tom admits 'staying in the moment' and a past title - 'being present' - are fairly similar. But often Tom will hear someone say something a little different and it will resonate deeply with Tom. People search for 'tools' that resonate with their own personal journey. Staying in the moment was exactly how this episode came to be. So it was an easy decision to choose the title. These are all the steps one finds along their Pro You path of self discovery. Quieting the noise, removing the questions, that's what staying in the moment does. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode Tom continues his journey - his spiritual journey to be exact. Tom chose to pursue a spiritual path when he turned 55 (three years ago) and he has been on it, consistently improving, ever since. His vision, perspective, insight, everything has shifted. Even his vocabulary. just check out his PYP Episode titles - words he never used before the age of fifty. So 'Vibrating Higher' is the easiest way to explain what Tom is trying to share about his experience walking this here earth. He is the best he has ever been and that is the water from his well which he sells (for free) here every Thursday! Thank you for being YOU!
Enjoy and as always thank you for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom stole a few titles from his friend Scott; like today's. For a Caterpillar, the cocoon cannot be a fun time, not comfortable, not easy nor familiar. But the joy of the butterfly outweighs all of that - No Mud. No Lotus. The ProYou path is one of self discovery and it is not always good news. But once on the path of evolving, be thankful you are on it. Many others will never begin the journey you are on. You have deemed yourself worthy - Congrats and welcome! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode of PYP Tom is keeping it real. So real he added the hashtag 'sorry not sorry' as a part two of today's episode title. Taking out feelings; distancing oneself, allowing for separation, is the best way to gain clarity, perspective and the ability to be thankful in all circumstances. If Tom believes fully in what he is sharing, should he be sorry? Well, he's not sorry. Tom wants you to be the best YOU today, not tomorrow or next week, month or year. TODAY! So sorry, not sorry if the water seems a little cold from Tom's well today #winkwink
Just remember it's free! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom gets to share his incredible/magical weekend in Lake Tahoe. Once again being present is vital or truly maximizing moments that fall upon one's Pro You path. That is exactly what Tom experienced; from the drive to each moment, each conversation and even on the way home Zen and Tom stopped to watch the sunrise over a lake. Magical. Thankful.
Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom was stuck for a moment; he needed to share a message but wasn't sure of the exact message. So he waited. He waited to record an episode that spoke to what he was seeing and hearing from people. Tom took some time off and he wanted to share that experience but deep inside he knew there was a message waiting to be shared if he allowed it to come to him and it did. Which was new and kool all in itself! Tom truly wishes, hopes, that others will experience what he is experiencing, will enjoy what he is enjoying and will be thankful as much as he is and thus receive the fruits of that labor as Tom has. Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! When it comes to being around Tom's good friend and client Scott Mosier, Tom is a sponge. He is loving being back in Scott's life and they are definitely vibrating on the same frequency. Tom is more present than ever and is learning the huge benefit to staying there. There isn't comparison, reference, looking back or looking forward - j u s t n o w . The power in that is tangible and Tom feels like he is learning more about himself now than ever before and that's what he's selling on today's episode! Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode of PYP, Tom shares his two out of body moments that his dear friend, and client, Scott dubbed being 'Present' - hence this week's title. Tom shares that moment with him also being commissioned to build a cross which Tom absolutely loved doing and it was a total success. Tom gets a little emotional and he spontaneously comes up with a letter that the 55 year old Tom would write to the 15 year old Tom. It is a very good time to be Tom and he is as always, most thankful! Tom is also very very thankful to his listeners, clients, people he mentors and followers of his podcast and his journey - thank you for being you! Enjoy and as always thank you for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! This is the third or fourth time Tom began listening to the episode so he could record the intro and wound up listening to almost the entire episode. But this time was different. Tom touches on something he thought might be a splash opinionated or it could make someone feel uncomfortable, so Tom listened a little more intuitively this time. Joy. That is what Tom felt as he was listening: Tom likes his own podcast! And he concurred, agreed with and liked everything he shared. That's pretty huge after five years of recording and three hundred and fifty-three episodes. It's a good time to be Tom and he... is most thankful! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! On today's episode Tom shares a phrase that he always uses with his clients and those he talks to - 'being a mirror'. Tom has failed at more things than he can count and has struggled in many of the areas that the majority of people succeed in. Tom shares what's different and what he does that is not challenging and rewarding along his Pro You path. Lastly, Tom shares an interesting Monday evening he had whilst foam rolling and playing with Zen. Enjoy, and as always, thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! It's a good time to be Tom. That's a fact, but it is not easy for Tom to feel so good and to share it. It's actually quite unfamiliar for Tom to be this good anyways yet alone with all that is happening in the world. But Tom has stated when PYP became his journal: I'll walk the earth, have experiences and share those experiences and that's when the podcast became easier for Tom. What he did not foresee was doing so well and wondering if he should share how well he is doing. Again, unfamiliar. Well Tom has never swayed from being him, or his path, so once again Tom is keeping it real and sharing. What he is experiencing and feeling is a sense of true purpose which fills him with joy, calms any noise between his ears and adds to his peaceful Pro You path. Yes, it is getting better to be Tom and he loves it. A special shout-out and thanks to all those in Tom's inner-circle and you know who you are. HUGE hugz to his tribe! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! In today's episode, Tom is quite proud of, not due to the content, but just THE FACT that he has recorded and uploaded 350 episodes! Those are big things to Tom. In almost every episode Tom mentions "little things done consistently" - this started out as a little thing: one episode. It is a good time to be Tom and he is sharing his message - his Kool-Aid - to anyone who wants to listen. March, April, May of 2020 are the best months of Tom's life. Come to his well, buy the water he sells for free! Deem yourself worthy people! Enjoy and as always thank you for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! The title is not a 'yellow thing' it's a 'Purple Thang!' More and more Tom realizes that he cannot compare his path to anyone's simply because there is no one doing what he is doing especially where he is living. Tom makes clear he is not tooting his own horn. He is pointing out the dichotomy of him up until forty-eight years of age and being fifty-five. Tom's world is small, he made it that way and he keeps it that way. Him not fitting in is what Tom is embracing in a new and profound way, as he never has before. It is what makes Tom special, as it does all of us. Tom goes deep and shares things he's never shared before. Even Tom wasn't sure of the why to this episode but there is not much Tom filters; when it's time, it's time. Move forward. Repeat.
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"Come to Tom's well; buy the water he sells."
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Like it or not this is where Tom and his podcast are headed. Tom got breadcrumbs! #lol So Tom hopes you like it! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*
Hello and happy Thursday! Tom hopes this finds you well. Tom still in celebratory mode; April 2020 still proving to be Tom's best month. The title of today's episode is a quote Tom heard about two years ago and he loved it. What he is learning is that the process, like all things, takes time, and that's what Tom was doing; spending his time wisely while the new vibe became 'his' vibe. Tom never wanted a lot of clients just people he can positively affect. That is what brings joy to Tom's world. Thank you, thank you and thank you for being you, supporting Tom's journey, his podcast and buying the free water that he sells from his well! Enjoy and as always thanks for listening!
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*Not all exercises are suitable for everyone and this, or any other exercise program, may result in injury. Any user of the exercise program assumes the risk of injury resulting from performing the exercise. You should always speak to your doctor before you change, start or stop any part of your healthcare plan, including physical activity or exercise.*